Confidence is ultimately more important than talent, resiliency or even intelligence for having the life you want. Without confidence, it is almost impossible to make decisions, define your career, lead others, complete tasks well, or have a fulfilling life outside of work. What’s more, lack of confidence and self-doubt are the common denominators of burnout, stress and anxiety.
It may seem obvious, but the difference between successful lawyers and those who are not successful — or don’t feel successful — is confidence.
Lack of confidence, especially self-doubt, causes people to overthink, make bad decisions, lose focus and ruin their health. It lives in the past and is the bastard child of perceived mistakes and failures. Without confidence, overwhelming self-doubt robs you of satisfaction and demolishes your confidence, even when you do well.
What can you do if you are riddled with self-doubt and spiraling toward burnout?